Ursula Leichenberg/Relationships

Love Life
The running joke is that almost everybody wants to date Ursula. She has been asked out on many dates and seems to have a problem saying "no" to anyone. She also has a major problem with commitment due to the brain injury (cited below) and often uses it as an excuse for her wanting to live for today, rather than looking towards the future.

Richard Chiclets and Ursula met through Nancy Drew and Mick Jhonson while working on the first 4EQ event. Ursula ran some coverage for the event for LSBN. Eventually Richard asked her out to a friend date which was very romantic, and they began a confusing and awkward "friend date" phase which left Ursula unsure of what was going on. After she almost died, Richard asked her out on a real date, realizing how much he cared about her. Since then, they have had "the sex", dated for a few weeks, and then broke up. Ursula used to own a Bucaneer with the license plate "LIL DICK" (a joke about Richard).

Thomas Normady and Ursula began to date at the same time she was dating Richard. They had one date and spent a lot of time together. However, Ursula wasn't ready to get closer to him and broke up with him even though he confessed his love for her. Despite trying to be friends while they worked at LSBN, they fell into a friends with benefits situation that Thomas broke off to preserve his own emotional state. Ursula has also said she loves him as well, but Thomas was nearly broken when she got married hours after that confession, due to other circumstances. As of late, they still talk occasionally, but Ursula is concerned about his mental state and jealousy issues. Thomas left Los Santos for a while partially to escape the heartache from his unrequited love for Ursula.

Outto-Tune Tyrone asked Ursula out before she was even dating Richard, but due to his busy schedule, they didn't do anything over a month later when they had a skydiving date. He was pretty honest about himself to her and they planned on a second date at some point in the future, but Ursula doubts it will ever happen and has given up entirely.

Lizzie Byrne and Ursula have a flirtatious relationship and have slept together on multiple occasions.

[Redacted] asked Ursula to talk business, which turned into an awkward date that included NDAs and nanites. They have had several threesomes and fun times with others, such as Lizzie Byrne and Garry Roche. They made it official as boyfriend/girlfriend for awhile, but when there was risk of Eris (see below) marrying her love, Rick Locke, a killer whom neither of them trusted, Ursula and [Redacted] married in a super fast ceremony at the Observatory on August 12, 2021. Mick Jhonson walked Ursula down the aisle and gave her away. Pez Speedwagon objected, stating that he thought Ursula loved Barry Benson, but was punched a couple of times and backed off. Almost six months later, due to Ursula feeling neglected by [Redacted], she asked for a divorce. The divorce was finalized with a document stating there will be no contact and they cannot interfere in each other's businesses or personal lives.

Rick Locke was Eris' boyfriend and love in life. They met and swiftly fell in love due to Eris' need for acceptance as herself and not just as Ursula's alter. Rick's need for love was just as intense, and the two planed on buying the lighthouse home for themselves. Eris even joined the Smileys to help him. After Rick began to get worse and more prolific with his killings and then brainwashed May Flowers to see him like a father, Eris broke up with Rick, citing that she found that so inherently wrong, she can never look at him the same way again.

By mid-February, 2022, Ursula was dating Kenneth Jespersen, aka Mr. Smiley, while her divorce with [Redacted] was pending. Ursula believed that Kenneth might be the first person in Los Santos she'd been sufficiently attracted to who also genuinely had the ability to care about her well-being. She broke up with Ken in order to focus on herself and her DID. They started talking again around a week before he turned himself in, which she encouraged. She has promised to be there for him while he goes through his sentence, even volunteering to get arrested to say hello.

Ursula generally views Dick Fillet / Chuck Danger as an awkward creep and generally repulsive. However, while in a drunken stupor on March 10, 2022, Ursula had sex with Chuck on the Judge's Bench at the courthouse. The hot sex lasted five seconds, and a white spot was left on the desk. Afterward, the pair also claimed they were newlyweds while still drunk. They are not married, but they still continue to see each other. The entire affair has come down to random sex everywhere in Los Santos, but Ursula has said she doesn't love him, though he has said he loves her.

She first met Sidwig Crawshank at Maldini's where he sang her some songs when she was sad. She later ran into him when he was pretending to be someone else, and they flirted with each other. When she started working at Maldini's, Sidwig and her started to flirt even more, alluding to them getting together. When she was with the clowns, she bought a warehouse and as a group, they decided to share it with the Royal Mafia. After the fight with Kirk, Pandora gave Sid the warehouse, kissing him and riding off. From there, once Ursula was aware of everything, she started to see Sid more regularly. They have become more serious, but she has confessed to her therapist that she doesn't think she can ever truly trust Sid enough to love him because he will always put the gang first, and he has proven he will go to extreme lengths to protect them, including threatening to kill her and forcing her alters out of her when rumors went around about Eris snitching. While she hasn't told Sid this, she did tell her therapist that it was such a huge violation of trust for her. Ursula killed Sidwig when he returned after ghosting her for months.